Daily Star's agony aunt Jane O'Gorman is on hand daily to tackle readers' issues with straight-talking advice. From bedroom confessions to self-confidence and drug use, she has helped thousands over the years. Readers can write to Just Jane, Daily Star, One Canada Square, London, E145AP or email jane.ogorman@reachplc.com. Jane cannot respond to individual letters and not all problems are published.
Secrets and Lies
A reader discovers her best friend has been secretly sleeping with a female lover for two years, feeling humiliated and betrayed. Jane advises respecting the friend's privacy and stepping back, noting that the friend is still the same person. She suggests apologising for crossing a line and recognising the friend for the kind, unique pal she is.
Ghosts at the Feast
A groom-to-be faces a nightmare wedding as his fiancée's parents insist on inviting 30 friends and three of her ex-boyfriends. Costs are spiralling and tensions rising. Jane suggests a smaller ceremony with immediate family and explaining feelings about the ex-lovers, while acknowledging that marrying into the family means future events may include them. She questions if he truly loves his girl enough and advises keeping communication open.
