Dog trainer John, who runs Sidcup-based Aspire Dog Training, says cockapoos are easier to handle than many owners think. In a TikTok video, he addressed common complaints about the breed, including separation anxiety, stealing socks and underwear, and constant clinginess.
Understanding the Breed
John explained that a cockapoo is a cross between two working breeds: the cocker spaniel and the poodle. “Highly intelligent dogs, poodles, bred to retrieve game from the water originally, but highly trainable dogs,” he said. He noted that these instincts remain even in family pets.
His own cockapoo, Woody, is “not a nutter or a headcase,” thanks to simple training techniques. John emphasized fulfilling the dog’s natural needs. “We do lots of stuff. Get his nose working, scent work, tracking, gundog type training. And I walk him an hour, hour and a half in the morning, and then he's chill all day.”
Fulfillment First Approach
John advocates a “Fulfillment First” method: instead of stopping natural behaviours, he finds appropriate ways to meet those needs. This results in a calmer, happier dog that is easier to live with. He warned that many owners expect a “teddy bear” that only cuddles, but without proper exercise and stimulation, any dog can become a problem.
“If you're a cockapoo owner and you're having these challenges, it doesn't have to be like that, I promise you that,” he concluded.
Owner Experiences
Comments on the video reflected mixed experiences. One owner said their cockapoo is “very calm like an old man unless he sees a curly-haired dog.” Another described their dog as “simply the best, he has a big personality and is very affectionate.” A third wrote, “My cockapoo is amazing. Fully trained three weeks after bringing home,” adding, “It's the owners that are the problem.”
However, some noted challenges. One owner said their dog becomes “a vicious wolf” when a stranger knocks. Another said theirs “goes crazy for 10 minutes” when someone enters the house and gets excited meeting other dogs.
