When it comes to keeping a relationship strong, compliments can go a long way—but not all praise is created equal. In fact, some well-intentioned words of admiration could actually do more harm than good.
The Compliments That Backfire
According to relationship experts, there are two common compliments that may seem harmless but can subtly undermine your connection with your partner.
1. "You’re Perfect"
While telling your partner they’re perfect might feel like the ultimate praise, it can create unrealistic expectations. No one is flawless, and placing them on a pedestal can lead to pressure and insecurity. Instead, try acknowledging their efforts or specific qualities you admire.
2. "You’re So Lucky to Have Me"
This backhanded compliment often comes across as arrogant rather than affectionate. It shifts the focus from mutual appreciation to a one-sided dynamic. A better approach? Express gratitude for having them in your life.
What to Say Instead
Experts recommend focusing on genuine, specific compliments that celebrate your partner’s individuality. For example:
- "I love how you always make me laugh."
- "You handled that situation so thoughtfully—I really admire that."
By avoiding these two pitfalls and opting for heartfelt praise, you can strengthen your bond and keep the romance thriving.
