Being good with money has overtaken good looks as a desirable trait in a partner, according to a new study. Research of 2,000 adults found 30% consider strong money management one of the most attractive qualities, ranking it above being outgoing, family-oriented or ambitious.
The trait was most valued by Millennials, with 35% saying it is a major plus, and 56% admitting they would end a relationship over poor financial habits. The survey, commissioned by investment app XTB, found trustworthiness, humour and kindness remain the top relationship traits overall.
Joshua Raymond, UK managing director at XTB, said: 'Attitudes towards money have shifted, with financial responsibility increasingly seen as a sign of maturity rather than being something dull or restrictive. As the cost of living continues to shape everyday decisions, it's not surprising younger people are finding financial responsibility a more significant trait.'
The average age people start looking for a financially astute partner is 26, and 51% of adults said they focus on this more than they did a decade ago. Overall, 78% agreed being good with money is attractive, citing responsibility, reduced financial stress and future security.
Only 12% preferred a generous spender, while 56% favoured someone focused on saving. At the start of a relationship, 59% were open about money, with Gen Z and Millennials the most upfront. A further 14% found investing in stocks and shares appealing.



