Many couples dread the summer holidays, fearing that extended time together will expose cracks in their relationship. However, with a few simple strategies, it is possible to enjoy a harmonious break with your partner and even other families.
Firstly, avoid starting each day with a hangover, and ensure you allow for 'free time' where each person can pursue their own interests, such as listening to music. Clear communication about preferences is also crucial; the 'I don't mind, you choose' game often leads to resentment. Instead, state your preferences plainly, as one husband does: 'In terms of sightseeing, between none, some and lots, I am happy with none and some.'
When travelling with other couples or families, accept that differences will exist. Children may eat different foods or have different bedtimes, and some adults may be tight with money. The key is to not let these annoyances bother you. Follow the rules of the pub round: if you bought drinks last time, it's your turn again, regardless of whether your partner contributed.
Finally, resist the urge to find fault with others. One golden rule to ignore is: 'If someone isn't annoying you, you're probably annoying them.' This can lead to paranoia and unnecessary conflict. Instead, focus on enjoying your time together.
