A veterinarian has issued a warning to cat owners who find their feline friends stealing their spot on the sofa or bed, insisting the behaviour is far from cute and carries a deeper emotional meaning.
Dr Mark West, founder of the Westernport Veterinary Clinic in Australia, shared his insights in a TikTok video featuring rescued sisters Oreo and Pumpkin Spice. The clip shows the cats lounging in various spots around the house, a common sight for many owners.
“If your cat keeps stealing your spot on the sofa or your side of the bed, stop laughing because this is not cute behaviour,” Dr West said in the narration. “It is one of the most emotional things your cat will ever do.” He explained that the act is not about warmth or comfort but about seeking safety and belonging. “To your cat, that spot is not somewhere to sit, it is your spot and when they choose it, they are choosing you.”
The vet emphasised that cats see their owners as their safe place, territory, and anchor. “Your scent tells them everything is okay; that they’re protected, that they’re home. Cats don’t say ‘I love you’, they show it quietly like this,” he added.
Fellow cat owners reacted emotionally in the comments, with one saying, “I feel so honoured Roxie,” and another sharing, “I just miss my cat and I loved it when he did.”
