Rita Wilson has opened up about the deeply personal requests she made to her husband, Tom Hanks, following her breast cancer diagnosis in 2015. During an on-stage conversation with Demi Moore in New York, the actress and singer shared that she asked Hanks to be sad for a very long time and to throw her a celebration of life party if she were to die.
Wilson’s Health Journey
Wilson was diagnosed with breast cancer in 2015 and underwent a bilateral mastectomy followed by reconstructive surgery. In March 2025, she celebrated being 10 years cancer-free, marking a significant milestone in her recovery.
The Requests That Inspired a Song
Her conversation with Hanks about these requests inspired her 2019 song, Throw Me a Party. The track reflects her desire for a joyful celebration rather than a traditional funeral, should the worst happen. Wilson explained that the requests were a way to process her diagnosis and ensure her loved ones would remember her with happiness.
The couple, who have been married since 1988, have always been open about their relationship and health struggles. Wilson’s candid discussion highlights the emotional impact of cancer and the importance of communication between partners during difficult times.
