A close friend of the Princess of Wales has provided a rare insight into Kate Middleton's true feelings towards her brother-in-law, Prince Harry, amid the ongoing royal rift.
A Focus on Family Amidst Tensions
According to the source, Kate has chosen to direct her energy entirely towards raising her three children—Prince George, Princess Charlotte, and Prince Louis—rather than dwelling on the fractured relationship. This decision comes after what the friend described as Prince Harry repeatedly "taking aim" at his brother and sister-in-law in public.
The Prince and Princess of Wales are said to be embracing a fresh start, having moved into their £16 million "forever home," Forest Lodge, within Windsor's Great Park in November 2025. Notably, their new residence is situated near the former home of the Duke and Duchess of Sussex, Frogmore Cottage.
Silence Speaks Volumes
Royal expert Duncan Larcombe pointed to a telling moment that he believes reveals the current state of relations. He highlighted that William and Kate made no public acknowledgement of Prince Harry's 41st birthday in September, a gesture typically expected from working royals.
"Kate's silence spoke a thousand words," Larcombe stated. "They didn't post anything on his birthday... So Kate's message was loud and clear: the ball's not in our court, Harry – it's in yours."
He explained that due to strict royal protocol, the couple cannot speak out publicly, forcing them to rely on such "subtle, secret messaging." Their silence, he argues, is a deliberate choice indicating they are "not prepared to call Harry’s bluff" and prefer to "avoid him at all costs."
Looking to the Future
The friend suggested that Kate's perspective may have been shaped by her personal health battle, citing the teachings of psychologist Robert Waldinger on the importance of focusing on meaningful relationships. "Life's far too short to get hung up on Harry," the source conveyed.
For William and Kate, the paramount challenge is now seen as preparing their children for a future in the monarchy. Royal author Katie Nicholl noted that the couple is "thinking ahead for future generations" to ensure the institution continues successfully.
While Prince Harry has taken steps to ease tensions with his father, King Charles, relations with the Waleses remain distinctly frosty. There are no signs of an imminent reconciliation, with the couple reportedly still smarting from past events and choosing to focus intently on their own family unit and royal duties.
