Adult star Summer Robert, known for her size 30R breasts, has revealed that her dating life has become a nightmare due to constant objectification and fetishisation. Despite building a lucrative career and global following from her appearance, she says men rarely look beyond her chest.
Rare condition causes endless growth
Summer lives with a rare condition called macromastia, which causes her breasts to continue growing. This has led to her being labelled as having the "UK's biggest boobs." While her body has brought fame and financial success, it has also made dating "impossible," she says.
The problem often starts before she even meets someone in person. On dating apps, Summer says the conversation almost always turns to her giant boobs.
Conversations immediately turn sexual
“They message me and they go, ‘Is your back sore? Oh my god, look at the size of your t---. Oh my god, your t--- are so big,’” she says. “I’m like, ‘Bro, say hello. How are you? Ask me how I am.’ That’s it. Every other conversation is about my chest.”
For Summer, known online as scotchdolly97, the constant sexual comments are exhausting. Rather than being asked about her personality, interests, or life, she says men often jump straight to explicit remarks.
“Like a guy the other night who was really cute said, ‘Oh, let’s go home, we can have sex and I’ll stick it in between your boobs,’” she recalls. “What do you mean? Ask me something first, please. It’s so annoying and idiotic.”
Dates always over-sexualised
Summer says the experience rarely improves once she meets someone face to face. Instead of romance, she often feels like dates are treated as a direct pathway to sex.
“It’s never romantic,” she explains. “It’s always just they want to come over and they want to have sex and they want to leave. I don’t really get wined and dined. Not that I want to, but it’s annoying it’s not even offered.”
One recent encounter left her particularly disappointed. After kissing a man she had been talking to, Summer says he immediately suggested they go home and film content together.
“He ruined it,” she says. “I just walked away from him. Every single date I’ve been on has always been over-sexualised.”
Men fetishise her appearance
Summer says she has also noticed a pattern where men who show interest in her appear to already have a fixation on women with larger boobs.
“I’ve had boys that I’ve gone on dates with, and then I check who they follow afterward, and it’s just tons of girls with big boobs,” she says. “So I’m like, ‘Oh, so you fetishised me. Okay, I was just your fetish.’”
Despite her public image and career, Summer says what she wants most is a traditional, loving relationship.
“I want to be married in two years. I want a husband,” she says. “I want to get married so bad, it’s hard.”
