In a remarkably candid new interview, singer Lily Allen has revealed the emotional journey of extending an olive branch to her ex-husband Sam Cooper following the devastating fallout from her affair with actor David Harbour.
The 39-year-old star confessed that the period following her infidelity left her in such a dark place that she experienced suicidal thoughts, describing it as one of the most challenging chapters of her life.
The Affair That Shook Her Marriage
Allen met Stranger Things star David Harbour while still married to Cooper, with whom she shares two daughters. The affair ultimately led to the collapse of her seven-year marriage, creating a painful rift not only with her husband but within their entire family unit.
'I was in a really dark place,' Allen revealed. 'The guilt and shame I felt about hurting Sam and the impact on our children was overwhelming. There were moments when I didn't think I could continue.'
Road to Reconciliation
Despite the painful history, Allen has worked diligently to rebuild her relationship with Cooper, primarily for the sake of their children. The healing process has involved honest conversations, therapy, and a mutual commitment to co-parenting effectively.
'We've both come a long way,' she explained. 'The anger and resentment have gradually been replaced by understanding and mutual respect. Our children deserve to see their parents supporting each other, even if we're no longer together.'
Finding Happiness With Harbour
While Allen's relationship with Harbour began under difficult circumstances, the couple has since built a strong foundation and married in 2020. She credits Harbour with providing crucial support during her mental health struggles and the subsequent healing process with her ex-husband.
The singer emphasised that making peace with Cooper wasn't about erasing the past, but about creating a healthier future for everyone involved, particularly their children.
Allen's story serves as a powerful reminder that even the most broken relationships can find a path to healing, and that mental health struggles can affect anyone, regardless of fame or fortune.
