A bride who married in May is struggling with her best friend's behavior before and during the wedding. The friend, known since age 13, was negative and disinterested, changed the hen do date then canceled, and wore an off-white maxi dress. She left early and appeared unhappy in photos.
Bride's Hurt and Confusion
The bride feels let down and doesn't know how to talk to her friend about it. She understands her friend has had relationship struggles but feels hurt if the friend is taking it out on her.
Advice Columnist's Response
Coleen suggests the friend's behavior may stem from jealousy or personal unhappiness, not about the bride. She advises not letting the friend spoil the wedding memories and recommends asking, 'I had such an amazing time at the wedding and everyone else loved it, but you didn’t seem to enjoy yourself. Is there anything going on?'
If honesty follows, it can help the friendship move forward. If not, let it go and focus on the exciting time ahead. People change, and friendships can shift over time.
