Peacock's reality series Couple to Throuple has drawn criticism from relationship experts for its portrayal of polyamory. The show follows four monogamous couples as they explore forming a 'throuple' with one of 14 singles on a luxury island resort. While it is among the first to represent polyamory to a mass audience, experts say it misses the mark on accuracy and depth.
Sexologist Goody Howard notes that the throuple dynamic, or triad, is just one of many polyamorous structures. She suggests the show chose it because it is easiest for monogamous viewers to understand, but warns it often involves power imbalances. 'Couples privilege' can leave the third partner at a disadvantage, especially if jealousy arises within the original couple.
Another issue is the immediate sexual focus. Licensed clinical psychologist Karen Stewart points out that the couples are quickly placed in triple beds, leading to heightened jealousy and arguments. She says this sensationalised approach overlooks that many polyamorous people prioritise romantic connections over multiple sexual partners.
Despite these flaws, the show does highlight the challenges of adjusting to non-monogamy. A 2023 YouGov poll found that 12% of UK adults are open to or have experienced polyamory. Experts believe the series could have been more impactful by showcasing the diversity of ethical non-monogamy rather than focusing solely on triads.
