A wedding guest was left stunned after cancelling their attendance at the last minute due to illness, only to receive a bill of nearly £200 ($260) from the couple. The guest, who shared their experience on Reddit, said the fee was charged despite them cancelling three days ahead of the event.
The guest explained that they had RSVP'd to attend the wedding but were forced to cancel after coming down with a sickness bug. Rather than risk spreading germs at their friend's special day, they decided to stay home and congratulate the newlyweds from afar. However, they were shocked when the bill arrived.
Reddit post sparks debate
The guest wrote on Reddit: "Wedding no show late fee from somebody we barely know. Husband received a late fee of $260 because we cancelled 3 days ahead due to being sick. $260 is wild to me especially in this economy. We barely know them too."
Branding the move 'tacky', the guest went on to explain that the groom is a lawyer, which they claimed made the situation even more baffling. They added: "his actions shows me he's a c*** lawyer. I didn't include it in the post but the fee was sent through Venmo."
Online reaction
The post sparked a heated debate online, with users expressing disbelief that a couple would charge someone for cancelling wedding attendance due to illness. One user said: "Wait... a couple is charging you for backing out of attending their wedding due to sickness?? They're CHARGING you!? That's absolutely ridiculous, I'd sent them $5 gift card to the Dollar Tree and never talk to them again. Such entitlement."
Another user added: "just don't pay them lol. What are they gonna do? Arrest you?"
A third person commented: "A wedding is a celebration - not a therapy visit or a business agreement. Another example of people who think their wedding should be as important to you as it is to them, that you are just as invested regardless of your circumstances."
One more user said: "Would they have preferred that you showed up and hacked all over Grandma? People get sick and can't go to stuff. That's called life."