All Blacks and NRL icon Sonny Bill Williams has openly discussed the foundational elements that have kept his marriage to wife Alana strong for over a decade. The 40-year-old sports legend, who left a hard-partying lifestyle behind, shared intimate insights into their relationship on social media.
The Power of Consistent Dating
Taking to Instagram, Williams posted a charming photo of the couple smiling and embracing before a night out, alongside a clip from their evening. He directly attributed their marital longevity to a simple, consistent effort. 'One thing we’ve always done and still do is make sure we put time into still dating each other,' he wrote, captioning the post dedicated to his wife of 11 years.
He affectionately used the Arabic phrase 'Mashallah' and playfully suggested his wife secretly loves his eating habits. The post was flooded with positive reactions, including a comment from Alana herself, who wrote, 'Love you, darling. Always sexy.'
Why Privacy is a Non-Negotiable
In a separate TikTok video, Williams elaborated on another critical component for a happy union: privacy. He stressed that keeping arguments and marital problems within the relationship is essential for longevity. 'One of the secrets to me and my wife's longevity is shhhh... Privacy,' he said, putting a finger to his lips.
He explained that venting to family or friends after a disagreement creates a lasting negative impression of your partner, even after you've reconciled. 'Believe me, if you want longevity in your marriage, keep your problems as your problems,' Williams advised. 'Privacy is priceless.'
A Whirlwind Romance and Growing Family
The couple's story began in 2013, and after a whirlwind four-week courtship, they married according to Williams' Islamic faith. Their family has since blossomed, and they now share five children: Imaan, 10, Aisha, eight, Zaid, six, Essa, four, and their youngest, Mohammed, who is just four months old.
By combining dedicated quality time with a firm commitment to discretion, Sonny Bill Williams provides a compelling blueprint for a lasting and resilient partnership.
