Bonnie Locket, a 37-year-old singer and DJ with over a million Instagram followers, spent £350,000 on a lavish Lake Como wedding followed by a two-week honeymoon in Bora Bora. Despite the extravagant celebration, she says the marriage was troubled and she felt relief when it ended in divorce.
Locket met her ex-husband in a nightclub and they were together for two years before moving to Ibiza. She described the relationship as 'chaotic' and 'turbulent', citing infidelity on his part as the reason for the split. The high cost of the wedding was covered by her earnings from creating adult content online, which now brings in thousands of pounds.
Reflecting on her career, Locket said it has 'paused aspects of my personal life for half a decade'. She has decided to freeze her eggs to preserve her fertility, saying she doesn't want to rush into a relationship 'out of fear'. The procedure, scheduled for March, involves hormone injections and a short surgical procedure under sedation.
Locket now prioritises emotional stability over excitement in potential partners. 'I choose from a place of strength, not loneliness,' she said. 'Emotional maturity is everything to me now. I want someone who makes me feel emotionally safe.' She remains open to love but is not actively searching.