I slept with my boyfriend and his ex – it was amazing
I slept with my boyfriend and his ex – it was amazing

When Sydney Summers wrapped herself around her boyfriend Peter in bed, a third hand grabbed her waist and a woman whispered, 'You're amazing.' That woman was Peter's ex-girlfriend, and the threesome that followed was the best sex of their brief relationship – with no jealousy or regret.

Coming out to a new partner

Sydney had only been dating Peter for three weeks when she told him she was bisexual. She was scared of his reaction, having previously been dumped by an ex who believed bisexuals would become promiscuous and betray trust.

Peter's response was perfect. 'Great,' he said, smiling. 'Wanna eat out?' After laughing at the double entendre, they went to a Japanese restaurant and celebrated the honesty in their relationship.

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Then he said something she later considered a red flag: 'I would love to see you have sex with another woman.' Sydney replied enthusiastically, not realising until later that she was fulfilling his desire, not hers.

The threesome with his ex

At a house party in East London, Peter told Sydney to point out any woman she wanted to sleep with. She was curious to see if their relationship could survive a threesome and intrigued by the idea of being in an open relationship.

When Tamara, Peter's ex-girlfriend, walked in, Sydney was immediately drawn to her. Peter introduced them, and within minutes, he had talked to Tamara and the deal was done.

They followed Peter to a top-floor bedroom, where Tamara took Sydney's clothes off and started kissing her. 'It was perfect. She was perfect. Peter was perfect. It almost felt like a dream,' Sydney wrote.

The beginning of the end

For the next couple of weeks, Peter and Sydney had electric sex thinking about the threesome. But soon, he began asking for more threesomes, and Sydney said no – not wanting to tarnish the perfect night or ruin their relationship.

That was the beginning of the end. They broke up soon after, and Sydney didn't mind. 'I had still had the most perfect threesome, and no one could take that away from me,' she wrote.

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