A soon-to-be-married couple has faced severe backlash after sending an email to their wedding guests that many are calling 'tone-deaf' and 'narcissistic'. The message, which circulated online, outlined strict demands for gifts and cash contributions, leaving recipients stunned.
The Controversial Email
The email reportedly instructed guests to adhere to a detailed gift registry, with no exceptions. It also requested monetary contributions to fund the couple's honeymoon and future expenses, framing it as a 'preferred alternative' to traditional presents.
Public Outrage
Social media users were quick to condemn the couple's approach, labelling it as 'entitled' and 'tacky'. Many argued that such demands go against wedding etiquette, where gifts should be optional and given willingly.
- 'Gross and delusional' – One commenter described the email as a blatant display of greed.
- 'Weddings are about love, not profit' – Another user reminded the couple of the true purpose of marriage celebrations.
Expert Opinion
Etiquette experts weighed in, stating that while gift registries are common, pressuring guests crosses a line. 'It’s fine to guide guests, but demands can sour relationships,' one expert noted.
The incident serves as a cautionary tale for couples planning their big day, highlighting the fine line between practicality and presumption.
