MAFS UK Expert Charlene Douglas Mourns Colleague Mel Schilling
Charlene Douglas, a relationship expert on the popular television series Married At First Sight UK, has delivered an emotional and moving tribute to her late colleague and friend, Mel Schilling. Schilling tragically passed away on Tuesday at the age of 54, following a courageous and prolonged battle with cancer. The devastating news emerged just days after the Australian dating coach shared a poignant statement on social media, revealing that her 'light was starting to fade' and that her bowel cancer had metastasized to her brain.
A Peaceful Passing and a Final Whisper
Mel Schilling's devoted husband, Gareth Brisbane, confirmed her passing in a heartfelt social media announcement. He shared that she died peacefully, surrounded by love, and that they have a ten-year-old daughter named Maddie. In a particularly touching detail, Brisbane recounted that in her final moments, when it seemed cancer had robbed her of speech, Mel whispered a profound message for him and Maddie. 'It took all of her remaining strength,' he said, noting that this selfless act perfectly encapsulated her character, as her final thoughts were solely for her family.
Charlene Douglas Remembers a 'True Gem'
Among the many tributes pouring in, Charlene Douglas, a 44-year-old psychotherapist and relationship coach who worked alongside Mel for five years, spoke exclusively about her profound loss. She admitted to being 'in shock' and expressed that the most heartbreaking aspect is the void left for Mel's husband and young daughter. 'They were her world,' Charlene emphasized, describing how Mel frequently spoke of her family with immense love and adoration.
Charlene fondly recalled Maddie as a 'mini-Mel'—theatrical and full of life—and highlighted the incredibly close bond between mother and daughter, which makes the loss even more poignant.
Cherished Memories of Dancing and Deep Conversations
Beyond her professional persona, Charlene wanted the public to know the gentle, joyful side of Mel Schilling. 'Mel was a real true gem,' she stated, remembering her as lovely, kind, and a consummate professional. She shared cherished memories of their time together on set, particularly their impromptu dance sessions during filming breaks.
- They would put on music, often by artists like Beyoncé, and dance with their makeup artists, Sophie and Roxy.
- Over their five-year collaboration, they shared countless deep and meaningful conversations, becoming vulnerable with each other and forming a strong, supportive friendship.
Professionalism and Bravery in the Face of Illness
Charlene also spoke with deep admiration about Mel's grace and bravery during her illness. For a couple of years, the production team was aware of her cancer's return and made adjustments to ensure her comfort. Despite finding it difficult, Mel remained a dedicated professional. 'She was such a fighter,' Charlene noted, explaining that work served as a welcome distraction for her.
Mel's commitment to the couples on Married At First Sight UK was unwavering. Charlene described her as a 'real lover of love' who was deeply devoted to helping the participants navigate their relationship journeys, regardless of her personal struggles. This dedication, Charlene said, is something she will always admire and remember about her dear friend and colleague.
